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Sept 25, 2008 19:20:32 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Sept 25, 2008 19:20:32 GMT -5
Okay...its a new year and im now in the 8th grade. But the sad thing is that Christian and I dont have ANY classes together. So we ummm....broke up... . Recently i started dating Chris Brinkmeyer. BUT! Christian got transfered into my dance class and my math class [the class where we first met ]! SO now i fell in love with Christian again and he wants to get back together but i cant just leave Chris. Chris really likes me...I MEAN REEEEAAAALLLLLYYY LIKES ME!!! My friend lauren asked him what he thought of me and his exact qoute was "She's perfect. I cant think of anything wrong with her. Sonya's a ten." Honestly i love Christian more than anyone else in the world [sarcasm but u know what i mean]. Now im considering dumping Chris for Christian...but i feel bad because Chris keeps giving me gifts and stuff. My plan was to Dump him on tuesday and give back all his presents and then go out Christian. Does that sound mean though? Chris knows i like other boys other than him and he's okay with it but i dont know how he'll react to Christian and me. Honestly i dont want to date Chris [accually i never did...my friend hooked us up] but i just dont want to break his heart. Im his 2nd girlfriend and he's my....32nd.... Please guys....i really need your help! please reply and go to this link and cast votes please... desertheart.proboards28.com/index....ge=1#1222028932
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Sept 25, 2008 20:07:12 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Sept 25, 2008 20:07:12 GMT -5
Heey I got some good advice for you Phoenix. I had that situatin and the best advice I can give is to tell Chris the truth. Especially if you can't like him as much as you like another person. I'm sure you will make the right decision. Your a good person and another good advice follow your heart. It sounds cheesy but it actully works. aha. Good luck! I'm crossing my fingers for you!
x--snowy.
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Sept 26, 2008 18:18:13 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Sept 26, 2008 18:18:13 GMT -5
I'm agreeing with Snowy. Simple fact is, it'd be worse not to tell him....just make sure to do it gently.
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Sept 26, 2008 18:46:12 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Sept 26, 2008 18:46:12 GMT -5
OKay...i broke up with Chris but now im not sure about going out with Christian anymore because umm....i kind of like ANOTHER boy. His name is Antonio Dauz. In the first 6 weeks of school we were close friends[me and him and phillip and lauren]. Then we fell apart when Lauren asked out Phillip and he rejected her. So now this year were very close buds again. I told Antonio i like him[he keeps say"No...you love me...yes you do...you know it. You cant hide your feelings."] and he said that he likes me too. Honestly i dont know who to choose. Chris asked me today if id ever go back out wit him and i didnt answer. Christian is waiting but im not sure how he'll act this year because he acts different all the time but if i choose him Antonio will think that i dont like him.... I didnt know i had this much guy trouble. OH! And my best friend Yvette has a little bro 1 year younger than me and he likes me too.....
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Sept 28, 2008 11:22:03 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Sept 28, 2008 11:22:03 GMT -5
Why not just wait? Tell anyone who asks that you're confused, and then wait, get to know said boys better, and see which one you like best?
Don't mind me too much though....I don't, and have never, had a boyfriend, so I wouldn't know.
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Sept 28, 2008 18:03:25 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Sept 28, 2008 18:03:25 GMT -5
Aha yah those situations do get complicated. Seasle knows about as much as I tell her from my experiences but she has the right idea. Get to know these guys better, don't rush into anything. Just hang out with them and see if their what you like in a guy. So if Christian turns out to be the one then choose him, or is Antonio is then him.. and if weirdly its Chris then give him a chance. Its confusing but play it out see what happens. Just hang out with them see what happens. I've done it and my boyfriend know I am wondering why I didn't just date him sooner. If you ever need some help just pm me or you can e-mail me at babee-gurl-120-@hotmail.com
Cyaah.
Snowy.
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Sept 29, 2008 23:02:29 GMT -5
Post by rex. on Sept 29, 2008 23:02:29 GMT -5
best advice you'll ever hear from anyone is to be honest. to yourself and others.
i have a question though. you guys broke up you had no classes? if you ask me thats a pretty shallow reason. either theres more to the story, or not, you can still see someone after class.
let me tell you something, after middleschool, highschool, your not going to see your loved ones as much, its something that the sooner you get used to the better, take it from someone who knows.. keep that in mind
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Sept 30, 2008 21:03:25 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Sept 30, 2008 21:03:25 GMT -5
its because we couldnt see eachother and we both thought it would be better if we saw other ppl but he got switched into 2 of my classes so now we see each other.
okay well now im going out with Antonio...im setting chris up with my best friend lauren and Christian will always have my love. But he's a little jealsous cuz him and antonio r bff's
since i already dated Christian[3 times] and chris[once] i thought it was time for Antonio to have his chance. He's sweet. Not to clingy[cough cough chris was too clingy] and not to far away [cough cough christian was a little but not too bad]. The only bad thing is that recently my buddy Greg[ya'll know him] found out that we are dating and well....antonio really relys on Greg opinion. if me and greg start hatin' again me and antonio r over.
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Oct 1, 2008 16:20:07 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Oct 1, 2008 16:20:07 GMT -5
if antonio likes you as much as he said he wont go by what his buddy says. dont stress about it
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Oct 1, 2008 20:57:03 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 1, 2008 20:57:03 GMT -5
dont worry i wont. were close buds no matter what happens.
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Oct 5, 2008 11:45:01 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Oct 5, 2008 11:45:01 GMT -5
You know, this is the frist time I'm glad don't go out with people. It all seems too complicated....good luck with it. I'm going to read fanfiction.
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Oct 6, 2008 21:07:57 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 6, 2008 21:07:57 GMT -5
Ummm...thanks? but right now i got [almost] everything under control.
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Oct 9, 2008 11:31:23 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Oct 9, 2008 11:31:23 GMT -5
Well, I've never had a boyfriend (for obvious reasons) but Ican give you a piece of advice. Most guys aren't all that serious about a high school relationship. Very few high-school relationships develop into anything after high school. Having a girlfriend in high school is usually a mark of social standing. That's why I'm waiting until college or later to even start dating.
For some reason, everybody comes to me with boyfriend problems...I've gotten good with counseling....
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Oct 13, 2008 16:01:30 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Oct 13, 2008 16:01:30 GMT -5
Maybe it's because you're a nice guy? Or you're thought to be trustable?
Or maybe they're all plotting against you, and want to drive you crazy by asking you relationship questions all the time.....don't look at me like that, I'm not paranoid!
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Oct 13, 2008 16:09:12 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Oct 13, 2008 16:09:12 GMT -5
Jeez seasle your so weird but Heero Yuy thats really good advice. I think we could become really good friends I'm so used to people coming to me with their problems especially dating. And I'm not getting into any serious relationships unless well.. its this one guy but that wont happen to when I go to college in london england hopefully ill find someone.. but yah lol im just blabbering..
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