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Oct 13, 2008 16:22:34 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Oct 13, 2008 16:22:34 GMT -5
Well, there is one girl I'd consider dating, but she has a bf at the moment...
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Oct 13, 2008 17:26:04 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Oct 13, 2008 17:26:04 GMT -5
oh that sucks.. well dont stop hoping lol you seem like a great guy so im sure you could find someone no problem
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Oct 14, 2008 7:08:15 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Oct 14, 2008 7:08:15 GMT -5
Thanks...
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Oct 14, 2008 16:02:28 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Oct 14, 2008 16:02:28 GMT -5
I'm not weird....
Isn't it pretty likely the girl you like will break up with her boyfriend? I didn't think most relationships lasted long....
Nevermind me. For all I know, there could be another reason...
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Oct 14, 2008 20:29:12 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 14, 2008 20:29:12 GMT -5
Okay well Antonio broke up with me on Friday because i hang out with this 7th grader named justin and we like each other. I was so sad so i told my friends Devyona and now she's going to jump him with like 10 other chicks on friday because hes ignoring me. Honestly i do like justin but i would never cheat! I really like antonio and the only person i like more than him is Christian. Huh....boys!
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Oct 14, 2008 20:46:26 GMT -5
Post by rex. on Oct 14, 2008 20:46:26 GMT -5
seriously, what the hell is going on here?? your relationships all seem to be weeklong flings, how do you acquire so much drama in such a short amount of time? i was low key when i said it the first time but you need to slow down and figure yourself out instead of instigating more drama by going off with these guys that you apparently have hardly any feelings for.
sorry. i mean that in the most constructive way possible.
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Oct 14, 2008 20:51:03 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 14, 2008 20:51:03 GMT -5
Well i still really like Antonio its just that Justin likes me but i only like him as a friend. He dumped Friday and now my friends want to kill him because he's purposly ignoring me... Here is where i stand.
Christian- I will always love him and he will always love me. Nuff said.
Antonio- still likes me and i still like him but he thinks i like justin.
Justin- loves me and i sorta like him but i dont want to go out with him now.
Malcolm- loves me...i just think hes cute and nothing else.
Chris- im sooooo over him and he is STILL OBSESSED WITH ME! i think he stalks me....
Greg- he asked me out on Saturday but i havent replied.
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Oct 14, 2008 21:03:13 GMT -5
Post by rex. on Oct 14, 2008 21:03:13 GMT -5
were you getting all of these requests before? see, these guys see you jumping around and they're just getting in line hoping they'll get a chance with you. thats an unhealthy relationship. i dont know these people so i cant say whether they really like you or not, just keep that in mind. think of it like this: cute girl at the club, the guys notice that shes pretty, she can dance pretty good, and shes not dancing with anyone in particular, so they're all going to stand around her and wait till shes done with this song and then maybe they'll get lucky and she'll dance with them next, even if it is just to be nice.
and also, be careful with that word. its editable, and at your age, and experience, it prolly doesnt mean what it will in 5 years or even in one. im not trying to be mean, imseriously just looking out for you because i cant sit by anymore and let you keep doing that.
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Oct 14, 2008 21:10:11 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 14, 2008 21:10:11 GMT -5
I suppose your right but i've bonded with them all so well and i do like alot of guys and i do have good reasons-
Christian-he's like the boy version of me. totally smexi, understanding, funny, smart[when he wants to be], atheletic, loyal, and just a good person.
Antonio-he's so funny and can make me laugh and cheer me up when no one else can. plus he cares about me...but hes just totally retarded.
Justin-well i dont even like him enough to date him.
Malcolm-shares my nerdy love of gaming and when i talk to him about it he doesnt give that "you play games?" look that i ussually get. he accepts the things wrong and unusual about me.
Chris-ha! yeah right!
Greg-he's not afraid to speak his mind...and in some strange way i think thats hot. plus he plays the drums just like me so we have lots of good things in common.
Also i dont think its my fault that so many guys like me. its just when i date someone they all rush in and pull me around if you know what i mean. its like i like him cuz this but this guy is really funny but this guy has alot in common but he too clingy...i just like to see what theyre all like...huh
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Oct 15, 2008 6:57:54 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Oct 15, 2008 6:57:54 GMT -5
Even I'm confused...and that's not easy to do
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Oct 16, 2008 14:51:39 GMT -5
Post by *Simply Seasle* on Oct 16, 2008 14:51:39 GMT -5
Meh, I'm not, not too much.
Just say you aren't dating for a while. You need time to sort everything out, I'm sure. I understand how you feel actually; there are quite a few guys I know and like, and unless I knew them better, I couldn't say who I would go out with.
I, however, don't have your problem....nobody asks me out anyway, so....just wait for a bit, I'd say. Learn more about these boys. If you want to date somebody...well, from the short profiles you gave me, I think Christian or Malcolm would be the best.
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Oct 19, 2008 20:22:43 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Oct 19, 2008 20:22:43 GMT -5
Okay so now im not dating anyone. Malcolm has a little bro named Ian who luvs me cuz i call him everyday...awwww how cute!
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Oct 19, 2008 21:16:43 GMT -5
Post by rex. on Oct 19, 2008 21:16:43 GMT -5
thats called instigation, but im glad to hear your stopping for a bit. now, what i think you should do during this time, is not stop talking to people all together, but i think you need to give yourself some time for your mind to clear and you need to figure out what you want, because recently you have been all over the place and i personally dont feel like you even know what you are doing, but thats just me.
heres why i think you should do this: my last relationship ended weirdly, and we've been talking still but the more and more time i spend just thinking about it all the more im learning about myself and the more i am realizing i dont need that kind of drama in my life and all that relationship brought to me was distress and confusion, if i had just rolled over and dived back into it, and i had the option to, i would be much worse off, and i would have only found out when it was too late. i actually think this is best for both of us for now. that, is the personal reason why i urge you to just take some time off, because its only when you aren't predisposed with another relationship that you can really figure the one with yourself out.
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Oct 20, 2008 12:04:31 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Oct 20, 2008 12:04:31 GMT -5
Not to be discouraging, but it can take a long while to find the right one. One of the greatest guys I know is on his third serious relationship. Somehow, it just goes wrong and they split. He almost married one of them...picture of the dude: He's in his twenties...and its a blast hanging out with him
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