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In Love
Dec 18, 2008 17:55:55 GMT -5
Post by Midnightstorm on Dec 18, 2008 17:55:55 GMT -5
*sigh* I'm in love with a guy named Jack whittamore and I think he loves me back but our friends HATE each other (kinda like Romeo and Juliet) I want to ask him out but I like my friends. I can't put his pic up because he told me not to. I do love him in math class after i finish my exam I put my head down and daydreamed about him what do I do? This is our song (in secret) www.youtube.com/watch?v=9H1r1BMmGbc
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In Love
Dec 18, 2008 22:41:58 GMT -5
Post by `s қ y . x x on Dec 18, 2008 22:41:58 GMT -5
It is a little like Romeo and Juliet isn't it? Well,I've been in the same situation but there isn't much you can really do. I think you should at least tell him that you love him but, try and keep it a secret from your friends.
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In Love
Dec 19, 2008 10:59:38 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Dec 19, 2008 10:59:38 GMT -5
I think thats really sweet midnight I hate that situation, but if your friends are real friends, they will accept thats who you want to be with, and they will be happy for you. Thats the way I see it anyway. See yah and good luck x--snowy.
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In Love
Dec 19, 2008 13:18:03 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Dec 19, 2008 13:18:03 GMT -5
I agree with snowy. If they are true friends, they'd accept your choice and welcome him. same with his friends
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In Love
Dec 22, 2008 2:16:40 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Dec 22, 2008 2:16:40 GMT -5
Wow, do i have advice for you my friend! You can ask anyone from this site about me and they'll tell you the same thing....I know guys. Okay to me your friends and his friends sounds like a situation ive been in. First of all its not "love" its just a word...no offence. i also like using that word although i really dont mean it.
I think you should ask your friends about it. Just say, "Okay, yeah i know you guys hate his friends but you dont hate him!" and if they do hate him then you should ask them why. More than likey they'll have only 1 [stupid] reason.
The guy i liked...well his best friend was a JERK!!! but one day he just said "You said you would back off, dude! I know you dont like her but i do, alright?!" But can you please tell me more about the situation?
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In Love
Dec 22, 2008 10:50:35 GMT -5
Post by Midnightstorm on Dec 22, 2008 10:50:35 GMT -5
well it's only some of his friends. But most of them are my friends to. the other "friends" are very sexist so they hate my friends and the fact that me and jack like each other. These friends of his are very retarded so they threated to do something bad to my best friend. I don't know what t do!!!! It's all very confusing.
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In Love
Dec 22, 2008 12:14:40 GMT -5
Post by snowstorm on Dec 22, 2008 12:14:40 GMT -5
See thats the kind of drama I hate. I mean why can't people just support their friends. Midnight if you really like this person I say go for it . I mean honestly if it makes you happy to be with this person, your friends should approve. And if this person is happy with you their friends should be happy for them. I dunno its just I went through this 3 months ago, and me and the guy are still together.
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In Love
Dec 23, 2008 19:08:11 GMT -5
Post by //Cindy// l u n a on Dec 23, 2008 19:08:11 GMT -5
Alright, well I'm all for being happy. But ask yourself, honestly - why does your crush hang out with these people if they're so sexist and obnoxious? Because either your friends are right to dislike them, your friends are being to judgmental, or there's a serious misunderstanding somewhere. If it's the third, then you should be able to sort things out. If not... ask yourself whether it would be healthy to be in a relationship with a boy who has such immature and mean friends.
Other than that little bit of pessimism, it's great that he feels the same way about you as you do about him. If you two are able to hold onto that, you'll figure something out.
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In Love
Dec 24, 2008 16:53:17 GMT -5
Post by ./*/_feather_\*\. on Dec 24, 2008 16:53:17 GMT -5
Well if you dont want to look like a wussy i would insist on fighting fire with fire...it works with me. Show that your not affected by the situation and look strong. I suggest that if they insult him or you, you should say, "Your just mad because you cant get a girlfriends' dumb*****!" or "What?1 Are you jealous of him or something?! Back off jerks!"
Guys get set back by that because sexist guys think that girls cant defend themselves, and also....what the **** is Jack doin to make his friends stop?! it seems to me like if he liked you enough...he would defend you...correct?
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In Love
Dec 27, 2008 13:01:30 GMT -5
Post by Midnightstromto lazy to login on Dec 27, 2008 13:01:30 GMT -5
Ok but it's only one friend and finally that f***** idiot moved away i was like a calling from above and now that he moved away me and Jack are going out! He felt the same way about me and wants to go out on the day after Christmas day we went to go see twlight best movie ever!!!! Thanks everyone for your advice! Your the BEST!!!
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In Love
Dec 27, 2008 15:09:37 GMT -5
Post by Kiba on Dec 27, 2008 15:09:37 GMT -5
I actually have sexist jokes running through my mind right now....my friends and I say stuff like that all the time, but everybody knows that we're really joking about it. We're all Rascist though. We hate white people. (and we're all white)
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In Love
Jan 4, 2009 12:40:53 GMT -5
Post by Midnightstorm on Jan 4, 2009 12:40:53 GMT -5
don't say anything
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